What object in this room holds a secret about you?
Probably this little box from college that I’ve carried with me since moving to Nashville after graduation. I went to a Christian school and was closeted the whole time - lots of secret lovers, lots of hidden moments. The box is full of memories from a version of me that feels completely different now, including love letters from those secret relationships.
It’s a reminder of how messy my first experiences with love were, how much I had to keep quiet, how much I had to hide. But that little box also whispers something else, something I haven’t fully faced yet… one day, we’ll unpack all of it in the memoir.
Aside from that - and the stains on the ceiling, proof that I’m terrible at opening wine- I’d probably point to two books I keep coming back to: Way of the Peaceful Warrior by Dan Millman and The Third Door by Alex Banayan. Both helped me tap into potential I didn’t even know I had and shape how I wanted to show up in the world. They’re like study guides for life and every time I revisit them, I find something new.